Posted by rainbowbrite on November 22, 2005, at 12:30:41
In reply to Re: Hey about some hugs for Fairy Wings, posted by fairywings on November 20, 2005, at 13:17:55
> Thanks everyone, I reallly appreciate that you care, and no, of course I'm not mad at happyflower. I think you're so sweet to post for me.
>very sweet
> My in-laws were in town, and my mil cornered me and spoke her peace with me, essentially nailing me to the wall. Then she went on her merry way, while I locked myself up in my room. I had to listen to her having a jolly old time.
>:-(
> Then our 20th anniv. came along later that week, and my dh didn't buy me a card or a gift, and he was supposed to plan an evening out and he didn't. We ended up running out for a quick bite, and that was nice, but I was so hurt and depressed.
>Im sorry about your anniversary. I would be upset too. But maybe you could re-celebrate? When things have calmed down maybe you could make dinner reservations somewhere special and spend the evening out without stress.
> Then in therapy my T asked me if I thought I was a difficult person, I don't know if he thinks I am or if he wanted to know if I think I am. I'll post more later, but right now I have to play taxi.
>I think he was asking if *you* think you have a right to feel annoyed, my t has said this sort of thing to me and what he is trying to find out is whetehr "I" see my feelings as wrong or not justified. He is trying to validate me but it has come accross the otehr way to me so I had to clarify. I would ask him.
(((FW)))
Hope things are better
poster:rainbowbrite
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