Posted by allisonross on November 18, 2005, at 9:45:46
In reply to Re: B2, Ally. ***trigger?*** » muffled, posted by B2chica on November 18, 2005, at 9:33:33
> > NOBODY gives me a bath, NOBODY tucks me in. You got that. But the rest sounds lovely.
Alrighty then.
> > Can you really go back like that?
Well, no....of course you can't go back, but you can find someone to nurture you, etc.....i never had it as a child, and then I just got out of 31 years of abusive marriage; so, I NEVER was nurtured, but I've got a ton to give (fo figure)
I can't. Kid hood is DEAD. Sweet little kid ain't though. Met her. Damn B2, I wish you could meet your little sweetie inside. She's there.
> > Muffled.
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> i must admit i felt a little funny when i read bath. its interesting cuz yesterday in session i mentioned that i remembered my mother giving me and my brother baths and whenever she bathed me she was terribly rough, i remember feeling almost raw when she was done. maybe that's why i hate taking baths and showers.
> i'm just wondering...is it wierd to have kids the age of 6-7 and 8-9 taking baths together?i wouldn't do it if they were the opposite sex ; kids are VERY aware of the differences, and it could start to be erotic. Those ages are too old for that.
> it makes me angry when you talk about the stupid little girl inside me.
She isn't stupid; she only wants to be loved and understood and nurtured. You can do that.
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> i think that's what my T wants. i should tell him to just get me talking about her.Why don't you?
Hugs, Ally
> b2c.
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