Posted by allisonross on November 15, 2005, at 12:12:14
In reply to do i have a sign *trigger*, posted by B2chica on November 15, 2005, at 10:59:08
> Sweetie: You seem like SUCH a sweetie!
I endured a childhood of abuse, then 31 years of abusive marriage, and THEN spiritual abuse (long story).
Something we must all realize (that have been abused), is that abuse is ALWAYS A CHOICE.
The abuser CHOOSES to abuse...when we are children, etc., we cannot defend ourselves; it's all about power and conrol.
I can see why one would feel like they are wearing a sign!
You SHOULD be ticked off (that's a healthy sign!)
Hugs, Allyidust wondering if i have a sign on me that says, please come abuse me.
> after reading ghosts post above she mentioned her abuse happening twice, i've had incedents happen when i was young and teenager. and i'm beginning to feel (now realizing all this cr@p) that i feel like i have a sign on me that says "oh please come abuse me"
> it seems to me that cuz of what happened when i was younger, it kept happening cuz i let it and later again cuz i didn't stop it.
> this is making me angry. am i angry or frustrated? maybe just a little pi$$ed off.
> does anyone else feel like their wearing this sign?
>
> b2c.
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