Posted by Dinah on November 9, 2005, at 8:04:36
In reply to Just didn't connect, posted by rubenstein on November 8, 2005, at 18:56:07
My only suggestion is to mention it when it happens. I sometimes find that just mentioning changes the dynamic in the room enough to dispell the feeling. Perhaps it drags him back into the room if he's distracted, or perhaps it causes a change in the course of the conversation to what I'm avoiding, if I am avoiding. But I nearly always find it useful.
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