Posted by fairywings on October 21, 2005, at 14:23:42
Saw my T and gave him the note I'd written telling him I thought he was defending my father. He said that he didn't mean to come across as defending my father. He thinks my father's behavior was sick and no one is responsible for his behavior but him, and that it certainly wasn't me. Then he said he was trying to help me look at things differently and not continue to have the behaviors that weren't doing me any good. He said that he's okay with where I am with everything, and that he wants me to be okay with it, but that he doesn't want me to have to continue to live with all the anger if I can get past it. We talked about all of that, and why I misinterpreted what he said. He was really kind as usual.
I'm good with what he said, he's been so nice I don't know why I got so upset, I should've known there was a logical explanation.
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