Posted by antigua on October 21, 2005, at 11:16:18
In reply to Re: Anybody else have very *trigger*, posted by Damos on October 20, 2005, at 21:59:21
Ahh, I'm so envious of your ability to let the feelings out. I'm better at it now, but the really big things are still held down tight.
I'm a "blurter" and I'm forever worried/defensive/hurt/embarraseed by the reactions I get from others. I know logically that many things shouldn't just be blurted out, but sometimes I can't hold them in and the cost is high. I'm always so ashamed afterwards. I've also learned, though, that many people can't handle what I have to say, and it's very hard for me to distinguish what is my stuff and what is actually theirs (I always want to blame myself).
I'm so sorry about the miscarriage. I've been there too, and good for you for finally dealing with it.
best,
antigua
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