Posted by Dinah on October 16, 2005, at 15:20:15
In reply to Re: fear of intimacy, posted by alexandra_k on October 15, 2005, at 18:44:00
I'm not sure about the loved and lost idea. It's a lot easier for my dogs, because it's so uncomplicated. Of course I'd rather have loved and lost because there is no betrayal or abandonment, except in the broadest terms. But when the losing is mixed in with abandonment and anger and all those things... I think I'd have rather never to have loved at all.
poster:Dinah
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