Posted by Dinah on October 4, 2005, at 3:32:04
In reply to Re: New therapist » Dinah, posted by fallsfall on October 3, 2005, at 21:56:46
I'm afraid I never understand my husband's thinking. :) That was the major focus of today's session, and I'm not sure I was fair because I presented more of my husband's flaws than strengths. So little time.
But the rule in our family is that we are each in charge of dealing with our own families. Though honestly that works more with his family than mine.
I think I resent that he didn't allow my father to come to my home when my mother refused to get him proper care as he was dying, while being ok with bringing his family home. And he's adamant that he doesn't want my mother around right now, not even to help care for her dogs which are living with us right now.
I know he's in an impossible situation, and I really try to keep that in mind, but I can't help but remember the times I was in impossible situations.
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