Posted by rainbowbrite on October 2, 2005, at 11:03:53
In reply to When someone looks up to you, posted by lynn970 on October 2, 2005, at 0:10:14
> When I find out that someone looks up to me (besides my students or my children), I dont know how to handle it. I cant imagine someone looking up to me. It makes me nervous. I usually do or say something to make them stop. I dont know why I do that.
could it be becasue you are afraid of letting the person down? You have unconditional love from family so maybe you worry that if you allow someone else to have such high standards of you you might let them down and then they will feel angry with you?
Try to take it as flattery and that everyone has flaws and when our flaws are revealled others are generally accepting of that too.
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