Posted by fairywings on September 17, 2005, at 8:19:26
In reply to what habits/behaviours counter laziness and narc.., posted by iforgotmypassword on September 16, 2005, at 17:58:25
> what habits and behaviours are essential to countering and eliminating laziness and interpersonally expoitative complaining behaviour. please, if there is anything beyond the typical "grow up and get a life". i hope i'm not being melodramatic by saying that it feels really dissmissive.
i didn't understand this ? until grey responded, now i think i do.
i tend to get paralysed in inaction too, but i find just getting up, getting started gets me going. if you can bear it, something like flylady.com can be helpful for some for household things. i'm bad at the running around chores.
complaining? hmmmmm, tape recording yourself and then listening to it is more unbearable than most anything, it can stop you in your tracks for awhile. i hate to hear my own voice, let alone my screechy, whiny voice played back to me.fw
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