Re: Ambivilance » Dinah

Posted by JenStar on September 15, 2005, at 23:31:56

In reply to Ambivilance, posted by Dinah on September 15, 2005, at 21:19:20

hi Dinah,
I'm sorry it's so tough. Is it possible your T wanted to live in a different city, for professional or family reasons, and this disaster was the excuse to start over somewhere new for him?
I'm sure it's very hard to leave clients, especially one so dedicated and close as you are to him. I know it hurts that he CAN leave so suddenly, without warning. I'm sorry life is not more stable than that. It's scary to think that solid supports can suddenly disappear. But I continue to believe that you are a strong wonderful person, and that you WILL do well without him being in the same city!
Like Orchid mentioned, maybe this will be a blessing in disguise? I know you want forever therapy, but it DID sort of sound (maybe?) like you were outgrowing the expertise of your T? Sometimes like piano students get too good for a certain teacher? Maybe it will be good to start over with a new T, a new point of view?
I'm sorry if that all sounded horrible, and if you don't want to do that. But I DO have confidence that you will prevail. :)
JenStar

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Thinking of looking for very short term therapy Dinah 9/12/05
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Re: Well, for what it's worth fallsfall 9/14/05
Re: Well, for what it's worth » Dinah LadyBug 9/14/05
I hope I wasn't too brutal Dinah 9/14/05
Re: I hope I wasn't too brutal » Dinah JenStar 9/15/05
Re: I hope I wasn't too brutal » Dinah fallsfall 9/15/05
Re: I hope I wasn't too brutal » Dinah Tamar 9/15/05
Re: Well, for what it's worth » Dinah cricket 9/15/05
Re: I hope I wasn't too brutal » Dinah orchid 9/15/05
((dinah)) » Dinah Shortelise 9/15/05
Ambivilance Dinah 9/15/05
And to make matters worse Dinah 9/15/05
Re: And to make matters worse » Dinah Annierose 9/15/05
Re: Ambivilance » Dinah JenStar 9/15/05
Re: Ambivilance » JenStar Dinah 9/16/05
Thanks » Annierose Dinah 9/16/05
Re: Ambivilance » Dinah jane_d 9/16/05
Well put! (nm) » jane_d fallsfall 9/16/05
Re: Ambivilance » Dinah JenStar 9/16/05
Thinking of you a lot happyflower 9/17/05
Thank you » happyflower Dinah 9/19/05
Re: Thank you » Dinah All Done 9/19/05
(((((Dinah)))) (nm) gardenergirl 9/19/05
At the end of my rope (poss. trigger0 Dinah 9/19/05
Re: At the end of my rope (poss. trigger0 » Dinah gardenergirl 9/19/05
Re: At the end of my rope (poss. trigger0 » Dinah All Done 9/19/05
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Re: I'm sorry (poss trigger) » Dinah cricket 9/21/05

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