Posted by B2chica on September 8, 2005, at 10:32:38
In reply to Re: something T does not believe » B2chica, posted by terrics on September 2, 2005, at 11:23:20
>>I even told her that no one talks to me inside and that it is just thoughts so I did not have to deal her disblief. So now I am lying to keep her happy. terrics
this does not sound like a very theraputic relationship. maybe you've just outgrown what she is able to provide for you. would you consider shopping around for a new T?
my T may be leaving sooner rather than later (i knew this going in but hate it anyway). but he want's me to have some overlap with a new T. i just saw her yesterday. for a woman, she seems pretty ok, but i said i'd go in with an open mind and really try. so i went in, ACTUALLY showing my sad feelings (which that alone is an accomplishment for me and women) anyway, within 5 minutes she wanted to send me off to the hospital. on the one hand i don't blame her, she doesn't know me but how can i get help with my depression and suicidal thoughts if i can't discuss them without being tossed to someone else?
anyway...she may have self ejected on that move. but we'll see what my alternatives are.
wooops, tangent...anyway, my point to you is, if you can't openly discuss your issues what's the point? they need to know all of what's pertinent to what's going on inside you. they need to accept your word otherwise any advice from them is moot.
i hope this will work itself out.
best wishes
b2c.
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