Posted by happyflower on September 7, 2005, at 1:20:56
Okay, yes, I think my T is a neat person, he actually is but he is no longer on a pedistal from me.
Now could this be because I am now socializing with more people and having more personal but casual relationships with people that the T relationship isn't as rewarding because of the boundries and limitations?
Could it be because my therapy appointment isn't the highlight of my week or life anymore? ( I know it sounds sad that in the beginning it is all I was looking forward to) But now I am looking forward to other stuff and my appointments are becoming less of importance overall.
It is wierd, nothing has changed between us, but yet I think I have changed from being so attached and needy, to someone who is standing on their own two feet. Is this suppose to happen?
I still like seeing him, I still think he is great, but yet I am looking forward to seeing other people and am finding other people are just as important in my life. Just weird. What do you all think? Have I fallen off my rocker?
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