Posted by orchid on August 16, 2005, at 20:13:19
Me and my husband have been married for 4 years now. I am 28 years old (will be 29 this december). My husband is the same age too.
In my culture, people have kids very young - typically even 28 is considered very old.
I am thinking of trying to have a kid soon. But there are some unresolved issues - 1. I don't feel very happy as a person still. 2. Marital issues with my husband still. 3. My rheumatoid arthritis is still pretty active, so I am on pain medications.
Any ideas/inputs/suggestions? All my friends have started having babies, and I feel little out of place. Peer Pressure I suppose.
My husband wants to have a baby ASAP. I am still not sure though. I don't feel all that settled in marriage.
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