Posted by alexandra_k on July 28, 2005, at 4:13:11
In reply to Wanting a mommy (long) trigger, posted by daisym on July 28, 2005, at 1:15:07
>At what point does my therapist step back and say, "I can't be your mother, you have to get a hold of yourself and grow up."
I don't think he will ever say that.
Because...
It wouldn't do any damned good.
You will grow up when you are good and ready to and not before.I think... That over time... You will start to come to some peace and the urge to be looked after like that will just receed.
Because... You will come to appreciate the freedoms etc you get with being an adult and come to want them even more than you want to be a looked after kid.
Does that make any sense???
I'm just talking really...
And wondering aloud about how it is supposed to go...
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