Posted by pinkeye on July 11, 2005, at 14:33:43
Something I really realized in the past month or so, is that, nobody in this world is really indispensable. God didn't make the world that way..
Everyone in your life is quite dispensable. Be it your T, most loved friend, spouse, child, parents, mentor.. Anybody and everybody can be substituted and replaced in life.. That is how God has designed this world..
I was just thinking about how it seemed impossible to be able to go on without my ex T's support a few months back, and here I am today, still going on, working, managing things, living reasonably allright, being with my husband, able to love him, able to talk to my friends here and outside.. work etc.. And it seems little pointless now all the suffering that I went through for my ex T's leaving me.. Of course it was a good relationship and it had its value.. and it still has and perhaps always will.. but I didn't crumble and perish. I am able to work with another T, like her reasonably a lot, she likes me apparently, and I go on.
Somehow God designed life in such a way, that everybody goes on in spite of anybody else..
And some people say the key to be able to go on, is to have a good self esteem.. I don't know about that, but for me the key is to somehow keep God in the center of it all.. and think of all of us as just doing some part in the grand scheme of life.. doing some service and filling some role, just like being an employee in a big company..
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