Posted by gabbii on July 10, 2005, at 16:16:43
In reply to Re: embarrassing problem with T » GreySkyEyes, posted by Jazzed on July 9, 2005, at 0:55:42
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> I agree with pinkeye and Grey. I'm not obese, but I would think it better to find someone else to work with than to hurt this woman. That just would be so harsh, and perhaps would affect how she views you. If you are having such trouble, and it's okay to feel that way, I would look for someone you're more comfortable with.I think so too!
I don't know a lot about therapy but it just seems to me that they are people above all else and some things just HURT. I don't think it would be realistic to think that because they're a therapist they can take it. What if someone said "I don't like looking at you because I think you are ugly" Would a Therapist be expected to not be hurt by that too?
I don't mean *anything* against you Pinkeye at all, you are obviously very concerned about not hurting her feelings which is why you asked about it in the first place. I wanted to make that clear.
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