Posted by pinkeye on July 6, 2005, at 16:51:24
In reply to not sure » shrinking violet, posted by Shortelise on July 6, 2005, at 14:34:15
From my experience, trying to sort out anything with an ex T is a waste of time and energy. They would not reply, and it would only make you feel more worse. I am sure they have their reason, but it causes more damage than it heals. But that is my experience.. yours could be different. A better thing would be to really try to move on and focus on other things. But I know it is almost next to impossible to do that.
SV - is there anyone you know who could subsitute your ex T for you? A friend, or a pastor, or a co student? Someone you can hold in confidence and talk things with?
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