Posted by happyflower on July 6, 2005, at 16:31:17
Okay, SO MUCH happened I don't even know if I can tell it all to you! But it was probably one of our best sessions ever! I said EVERYTHING that I wanted to.
About the lying thing.... get ready for a shock........ He admitted he made a mistake telling me that he is a good liar. He didn't realize what he said until my reaction later. He understood why I reacted the way I did. In fact he said it wasn't transference I was feeling, I was really mad at him and felt let down. I can't believe he can be so honest, yet tell me he is a good liar. lol T's can be confusing!
He also told me he will stay being my T until I am done as long as he is being helpful to me and as long as I keep improving and working on my issues. I told him I think we are only 1/3 of the way there and he aggreed that I might be right.
A lot happened and it all turned out very productive. We talked about boundries, personal relationships, trust (the big issue of the day), and everything that has to do with a therapy relationship. He even said that this was our best session yet. I am glad I went back and didn't give up on him. :) Now I am going to try therapy every 10 days instead of everyweek! It is getting expensive!
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