Posted by alexandra_k on June 29, 2005, at 22:13:08
In reply to What is the matter with me? I am very confident.. » pinkeye, posted by pinkeye on June 29, 2005, at 21:56:53
> I am somehow 100 % confident today that he liked me.. I really believe today somehow that he really liked me a LOT..
Hmm.
> maybe all along he really liked me.. maybe that is why he kept helping me even after he retired from practice for 3 months..
I think that is a really good indication that he really did want to help you. Yup.
> I must be kidding myself though.. I haven't heard back for many months, and I don't think I ever will..You might not hear back from him :-(
Because... It is typically thought to be unprofessional to continue a relationship with someone after termination. Especially when they have ceased practicing.I had a similar thing...
My p-doc went back to Canada for his retirement. We kept in contact a little bit... But then he didn't respond anymore. I think he had to stop with that. Not because he necessarily *wanted* to stop - but that professionally, he should. Because if he isn't practicing anymore then he isn't getting supervision anymore and that could become rather dangerous for the both of you.
I'm not sure what you mean when you say that you worry about whether he 'liked' you. Do you mean as a person in general, or do you mean in a sexual way??
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