Posted by pinkeye on June 28, 2005, at 17:23:27
In reply to Re: How would you react to termination **trigger** » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on June 28, 2005, at 16:57:25
Frida - thanks for your support. But I think it is not possible to get more support from my ex T. I have to deal this on my own
LadyBug - thanks.. I really admire your therapist.. on how she said you can contact her forever.
Tamar - I am glad your termination went reasonably well.. I really think I should have had more chance to correspond with my ex T regarding this termination than what he allowedJenStar - Thanks for the support.. I also feel very unloved and abandoned and insecure..
Dinah - you are partly right. But the thing is, even just 3 months back, he told me I could write to him as much as I wished (when he had retired from practice). He said I don't have to stop communicating, and that I can write as much as I wanted whenever I wanted. So I was under that assumption that he would atleast write to me maybe once in 3 months or something for some more time... And subsequently, I told him I wanted to minimize contact, and then also he said I can write to him if it is necessary.. But couple of emails later, he said he was terminating me, and then after that never responded even when I told him I am hurting a lot, and he was wrong to terminate the way, and this abrupt termination was so very hard for me to take. So I am not so sure..
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