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What is the thing about not giving gift to your T?

Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 23:10:35

I once gave my T a cupcake that I had leftover from this chocolate granche cake I made for my stepdaugher. It had a homemade chocolate on it too. Well he seemed touched by it, I told him it was my peace offering for him. Because I really put him on the spot in the session before. He didn't ask anything weird or not accept it, in fact he got such a appreciative look on his face that I have never seen before.

But he later told me a month later that he put it in the fridge and his wife and daughter ate it. This was after he gave me a charity bracelet that he works for for a even exchange . lol Then I told him that the chocolate was an experiment I was doing, (dark chocolate covered raspberries). I wanted to know if the seeds were too much crunch. I said I wanted to get his feedback!
Well he said when he put it in his briefcase if got smushed.
Now here is the question for you guys. When he told me he didn't eat it, and it got squashed in his briefcase do you think he was seeing if it bothered me? It really didn't bother me at all. He said that they said it was good. But could he have been testing me on what the gift meant to me to give it to him? I really didn't mean much, I was just trying to be nice, and I didn't want them laying around the house for me to eat! What do you think? Or am I am just thinking too much? lol


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