Posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 9:01:05
In reply to Re: Why would a T ask these questions?, posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 7:50:18
OMGosh, I wouldn't get mad at you! I understand that you have my best interest at heart, and I really appreciate that. I'm not always the best judge of character, so I could be wrong about my new T.After the first session, I wondered if maybe he was divorced, bad divorce, and had a problem with women. I also intend to ask about that at the next session! But in such a way that he'll answer, and NOT ask me if or why that's important.
I did go there initially with child discipline issues, so that was initiated by me. His advice was good, but I just didn't like the way it was delivered. Too hard*ss, and I told him that. He dropped it completely. He did say I was the queen, and I haven't let anyone in this house forget it! LOL (of course my husband keeps reminding me that he also said he - my husband - was the king, but what's that got to do w/anything?!)
I will be asking about the weight and menopause questions, and why he felt it was pertinent to bring it up, esp. when I didn't initiate it. If his answer isn't reasonable, I'll tell him I'm not going to get into stuff like that with him unless there's a good and valid reason.
I'll let you know how it goes. I'm not ready to give up yet. I'll ask my p-doc more about his opinion at our next appt. I'm sure he won't steer me wrong.
Thanks for caring Happy, I appreciate it.
Jazzy
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