Posted by pinkeye on June 20, 2005, at 13:28:45
In reply to Re: I will stay safe. I promise*trigger*(long) » pinkeye, posted by 10derHeart on June 18, 2005, at 0:08:46
I have to say 10derHeart - you are so extremely wise.. Nowadays I can't help the feeling when I read these posts here, why my ex T is not this wise? Why he never wrote like you guys write...I really have started thinking that he has a really a long way to go before becoming a great T. He is intelligent, only missed on emotions.. maybe I should write to him and tell him all the things that he needs to improve if he wants to be a good T.
Thanks for telling me that I understand the right therapy termination techniques.. it has come through the hard way. :-(. I don't want to be a champion for this cause or anything, beucase I don't identify too much with it, but you are right about writing a book.. someday I think I should.. I think we all should like Dinah suggested below.
And you are right on mark about turning the anger towards me.. I think I have been doing that all along.. there is so much of anger at my father, and some amount towards my ex T also, and I don't know how to channelize it.. maybe writing a letter would help.. but I am worried about it getting nowhwere - he wouldn't reply anyway.. and even if he did it will backfire..
thanks so much for posting this.. it helped me a lot
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