Posted by shrinking violet on June 18, 2005, at 18:45:56
In reply to Re: Telling my ex T he made a horrible mistake » pinkeye, posted by Susan47 on June 18, 2005, at 0:53:02
Situations like these anger me, because it's so cruel, and I wonder if T's really understand that. If they do, and they do it anyway, they should have to be accountable; If they don't, they should learn.
I'm not an advocate of stirring things up like this unless it's warranted, and I think in your case it is. Does your ex-T have a boss or someone you could go to, and tell him your situation, and at least find out if anyone can clue your ex-T in on how damaging this type of behavior is? It irks me that he can do this to you (and who knows how many before you, and how many after you) and sleep at night and never have to deal with any consequences to his actions, leaving a line of hurt and damaged and confused people in his wake, while he goes on his merry way. It's possible he thought what he did would be the best course of action, but he (and T's like him) should learn that abrupt terminations are NOT the best way to go for most clients.
Sorry, but I'm sad and upset for you.
I hope you find peace soon in some way.
sv
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