Posted by happyflower on June 17, 2005, at 8:37:59
In reply to Re: How could I think of doing this?! » Jazzed, posted by Dinah on June 17, 2005, at 7:04:49
Hi Jazzy!
(((((hugs)))) You know I agree with the others about this guy. You must be in a very small town to have only this one office of options.
What I find weird about this guy is that you got into so much stuff on the first visit. I thought the 1st visit was just for each other to get to know each other.
My T said to me that he couldn't say to me I was being critical of him until he earned some brownie points with me and started to trust him and his judgements. If we would of spouted off this in our first visits I would I taken offensive to it and left him thinking he was being rude and a jerk. I think hearing anything critical from someone is hard and if it is coming from someone who is suppose to help you, what do they know, they don't even know you yet.
I do agree with what he said about you and your kids. Dr. Phil's book is good to read about positive parenting. I do this, and yes it is very hard, but it works! How old are your kids Jazzy? I am sorry I forgot :( I think the most importatant parenting thing is to be consistant ALWAYS.
I think it might be worth it looking outside of your town for a T . There are so many T's and I am sure you can do better than this guy. Good Luck!
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