Posted by happyflower on June 15, 2005, at 17:11:43
In reply to Re: Stress and T stuff » pinkeye, posted by thewrite1 on June 15, 2005, at 15:05:28
You know in any other business if a professional misses an appointment, it is really bad for business. To me, the death in the family is no excuse for her (or a secretary) not to call you and cancel the appointment and explain that she had a family emergency and is unable to keep the appointment. She shouldn't be forgeting any kind of appointments ever, clients depend on them, and in my oppinion, she is acting unprofessional if she forgets. But I do understand if she feels like she can't be there for you right now because of her personal problems, but she should of rescheduled you for a time that she feels she can pull herself together. Like later that day or the next.
Now as far as you MIL goes. She is out of line and sounds just like my MIL. I wouldn't talk to her if she behaves like this. Are you married? If so, I would let your husband deal with her. How does he feel about what she is telling you? He should support you first. I am so happy that my MIL moved out of state 9 months ago. She was such a pain and was so jealous of my husbands love for me and our kids. Nothing was ever enough for her and she depended on everyone to make her happy because she didn't know how to make herself happy. She is 84 and still won't kick the bucket. I think she is staying alive so long because she is just too mean to die. lol She is one of the reasons I am in therapy today. Well I hope you can talk to your T soon and feel better. I hope she says she is sorry for her unprofessialism. Good luck. And by the way you have a right to feel angry or sad what your T did, she was wrong.
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