Posted by happyflower on June 4, 2005, at 9:41:16
In reply to Re: Trying to make peace and let go » pinkeye, posted by Jazzed on June 3, 2005, at 21:15:33
I find a man who's off limits, that I'm comfortable with being off limits, but that I find attractive, and I fantacize about him. I know that sounds weird, but what it does for me, is keeps me trying to improve myself. I exercise, try to look my best, etc.. as if I'm trying to impress him. It's hard to describe, but it works, and the best part is it improved my marriage emensely because I felt better and sexy, and wanted to be with my husband. > I don't know if that would work for anyone else, but I'd never give it up because it keeps me motivated.
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> Jazzy
>Hey Jazzy!
It worked for me and my marriage! lol I think my husband got laid more since I have been in therapy then before! lol He thinks it is because I am feeling better! Well maybe a little bit, but if he only knew !!! lol
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