Posted by Jazzed on June 2, 2005, at 23:03:51
In reply to Could this be sexual abuse/trauma??, posted by Torey on June 2, 2005, at 16:22:55
Hi Torey,
I'm really sorry that you've been feeling so bad. I think, no matter how your parents feel, therapy is essential for you to understand your feelings regarding the depression and whether you perceived what was done to you as abusive. Even if it was neccessary to check you, how does a 4 year old mind deal with that? And yes, I think you need to tell the therapist everything so they can help you sort it out. Is the T you're going to see male or female? Are you comfortable with your choice, or will you be interviewing a few? I hope it all works out, that you click with the T. Keep us posted so we know how it went.
As far as cutting. I used to, and my scars are a constant source of embarrassment to me. I avoid social situations, which is nearly impossible because I'm married and have school aged kids. Please try to work out of this with other methods. I'm sure the T will have some ideas for you.
Jazzed
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