Posted by daisym on May 30, 2005, at 13:05:13
In reply to Meant to help, Warning signs (((Might Trigger))), posted by Jazzed on May 30, 2005, at 10:21:02
I feel this huge need to respond but I'm not sure what I want to say. Perhaps it is a warning to not get freaked out too soon or too quickly. Or perhaps it is to not assume that the person isn't getting help in some way or another. This is, of course, if you are the listener.
If you are the one with the feelings, I think it is very helpful to be allowed to write it down completely or talk about what you are thinking about. It does no good to tell someone to "not think that way." Taking something all the way to the conclusion and aftermath is a very effective reality check.
I'm wondering why you posted the list. Is someone in your life suicidal? Or, are you still feeling that way? I know you've been through a rough couple of days. I hope things get better soon.
poster:daisym
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