Re: How Do I Tell My T » Soxy

Posted by messadivoce on May 29, 2005, at 11:12:19

In reply to How Do I Tell My T, posted by Soxy on May 29, 2005, at 3:26:19

Hello Soxy,
First, welcome to Babble. I hope you stick around.
I can't add much to what Tamar, Dinah and Jazzed said, except that I had similar fears in therapy, and lots of shame and secretiveness as well. I too felt disgusting at times and was sure my T was going to be repulsed and make me feel even worse. But I can assure you that opening up and making myself vulnerable to my T with my "secrets" was okay, and in the end very healing.
If your T ever makes you feel more ashamed or disgusting, then it's always THEIR problem and the client should never stick around. I know that's easier said than done, but it's not something that should happen in therapy, and any T worth his or her salt knows that.
Voce

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How Do I Tell My T Soxy 5/29/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T » Soxy Tamar 5/29/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T » Soxy Dinah 5/29/05
Also, welcome to Babble! (nm) » Soxy Dinah 5/29/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T Jazzed 5/29/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T » Soxy messadivoce 5/29/05
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Re: How Do I Tell My T sleepygirl 5/29/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T Poet 5/29/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T » Poet littleone 5/30/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T Soxy 6/1/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T » littleone Poet 6/1/05
Re: How Do I Tell My T » Poet littleone 6/1/05
:-) That's terrific! (nm) » Poet Dinah 6/7/05
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