Posted by Jazzed on May 29, 2005, at 9:20:31
In reply to Stupid things our Ts have said, posted by messadivoce on May 28, 2005, at 1:59:21
> It was near the end of the year and I was asking questions about communication after termination (for those who know me well, you know that my T was not at all clear what was okay after termination and what was not). I was putting out feelers and trying to get an idea of what kinds of communication would be okay. He was being very vague. I was trying to get a straight answer out of him. I told him that I wished I could have a friendship-type relationship with him.
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> Me: I mean, I wish I could meet you for coffee or something sometime.
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> Him: I don't know if I can accept. But you can offer to meet me for coffee as much as you want. (What? Come again?)
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> Him: You have all my contact information, and I hope you stay in touch, but I don't think we'll be going to any AC/DC concerts anytime soon.
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> I actually rolled my eyes at him. I think he thought I was rolling my eyes at the above-mentioned band, since I'm a classical music snob. Went right over his head. Believe me, I have puzzled over that conversation for a year now I can't figure out what the hell he was trying to say.
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Print this out, send it to him, ask him, and then say, "let's get togehter for coffee, and we can discuss it!"Jazzed
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