Posted by happyflower on May 28, 2005, at 7:27:45
In reply to Oh, my! » happyflower, posted by 10derHeart on May 28, 2005, at 0:19:36
> >>Then he moved his chair close to me and looked right at me and said, "happyflower, is there anything else you want to tell me about this?" I very softly said, No!<<
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> are you joking? Or did he actually do this part, too? Maybe I just missed the part where you end with..."just kidding?!!"
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No, I am not joking! He usually says about 4 ft or more away from me, but when he said that he did get much closer, but not close enough to make me uncomfortable. I don't believe he was coming on to me, and it was my soft voice that answered him. It did make me stop breathing, lol, only because you know I was dreaming of him. But he never was inappropriate. But I do think he was also attracted to me.
During our next session, I felt the boundry walls come down stong. And I revolted, and asked if I had done something wrong. He said no, but he losened up a little. I asked him if I shouldn't have talked about sex the other day, for after all he is a male and all, and I thought he got flustered. He knew I knew it got to him. He said no, if it is something that concerns me, then we need to talk about it. But there has always been clear boundries for me and I don't feel he or I have ever crossed anything. Maybe gardengirl can help here. I think he was just trying to be sensitive and trying to connect with me.
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