Posted by pinkeye on May 2, 2005, at 17:39:08
In reply to Are we suppose to get attached to our T?, posted by happyflower on May 2, 2005, at 11:44:10
I think you don't have too much control over whether you get attached or not. Especially when you are going through intense emotional healing. It is natural to get attached to the person who helps you through.
But what you can do, is to keep things in perspective from the beginning. To recognize, that as much as it is extremely personal for you, and you feel the other person is there to protect you and save you, for the other person, it is nothing new. And your T will never ever form the same kind of attachment to you as you do towards him. He would have felt that towards his T, not you :-)
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