Posted by Dinah on April 22, 2005, at 19:32:18
In reply to Re: worrying about T's operation, posted by shrinking violet on April 22, 2005, at 10:20:43
Oh lordy. This is embarassing.
With me it was his move. It must have been mid intense relationship moment, because I wondered if he had enough people to help him move.
Then I recoiled as if I had been bit by a snake by the realization that the last thing I would want to do was help him move.
It made me feel sort of bad, and made the one sided nature of the therapeutic relationship very clear. But it also made me feel sort of good that I'd never have to find out the sort of things you find out when you help someone move.
I also worry when someone in his family is sick, or when he is sick.
poster:Dinah
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