Posted by pinkeye on April 21, 2005, at 18:30:37
In reply to ....she forgot about me...., posted by shrinking violet on April 21, 2005, at 14:13:47
That is careless on her part.. But maybe she just was overloaded and missed it.
But remember one thing, what someone else does isn't always about you or what you are. If a person forgets you one day, it doesn't mean you are forgettable all the time. But if you have a tendency to take everything on yourself, you will unconsciously perpetrate the same behavior again and again. Life is mostly a mirror - it reflects back what we think about ourselves. So say to yourself you are completely worthy and try to build more self validation. What your T does, what your nutritionis does - all these don't necessarily reflect their opinion about you. THink like this - if you forget an appt one day wiht whoever is that more because you forgot, or ist that because the other person is not rememberable? I have forgottne very important things about people I love very much all the time. It usually means my tiny brain got preoccupied with something else, and was not capable of handling multiple things at once.
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