Posted by LittleGirlLost on April 21, 2005, at 16:04:40
In reply to Re: Toooooo much thinking!, posted by Shortelise on April 21, 2005, at 14:26:08
> When it began to bug me, I told my T that it felt like too much, that he was there in my head all the time, but he didn't seem to think it was a bad thing. He seemed to think, and I hesitate to ever guess what he really thinks which is why I say he "seemed to think", that it was part of the attachment thing, and part of me integrating the new ways of being he was helping me to learn.
That makes sense to me. What's weird though is that I have difficulty internalizing her and fully realizing that she will be there week after week. But on the other hand, these random thoughts almost seem obsessive. (Ugh, that word freaks me out for some reason!)
> It's embarrassing but I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of. And I sure don't think it's crazy, though I do agree it felt crazy at times. I talked about it.
Maybe you're right. Maybe it's not so bad, and I can bring it up. I'm just afraid how it sounds. I mean, I'm not sure I'd be comfortable with someone thinking about me as much as I think about her. kwim?
> Whether your T is Jewish or not, it's nice to know about the Jewish holidays, what they mean, how they are celebrated. There are lots of Jews around and knowing about the religion is respectful!
I agree, but I'm not sure I would research it if I weren't so curious about HER lifestyle. It's funny, I don't know much about her (at all), but I do know she's jewish.
Thanks,
LGL
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