Posted by annierose on April 20, 2005, at 18:23:36
In reply to Re: Bad Session with T » Dinah, posted by cricket on April 20, 2005, at 11:31:43
Cricket -
Your T sounds rude. I hope you have the courage to tell him how much he has hurt your feelings. By letting him know how his behavior is affecting you, only then, by his reaction, will you know if this T relationship is worth fighting for.I think at some point, all clients and Ts will come across an impasse. And how they work it out together, as a team, tells a lot about their relationship. Having just gone through a struggle with my T, I will tell you, once you are able to explain how you felt, and the T explains their position ... that conversation can be fruitful and worth the struggle.
I agree with Dinah, that being at a low point in the relationship is freeing. What do you have to lose? It sounds as if he is frustrated with your silence. Give him an earful next session!!
And, keep us posted.
Annierose
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