Posted by Miss Honeychurch on April 18, 2005, at 14:59:01
In reply to Re: Teasing T's: Does it Happen?, posted by Susan47 on April 18, 2005, at 14:38:53
I think it's possible to unconsciously flirt with someone - it's harmless. I seem to play with my hair a lot in therapy, run my fingers thru it, rearrange it, etc. Apparently this is some sort of mating call. I don't really notice it when I do it, but driving back from a session I remember and am somewhat mortified.
As for the breast staring thing, I would venture to say, and I'm being bold here, that 100% of men do not actually KNOW they are doing it. I have had conversation after conversation about this with my husband.
Either I catch him staring at my boobs or someone else's. When I inform him he was doing it, he really has no idea what I'm talking about. So I don't take much offense at boob staring anymore. I really don't think men know they do it.
That said, I have never caught my T staring at my boobs, and I have a nice rack! Maybe I need to stretch more :)
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