Posted by pinkeye on April 12, 2005, at 13:18:37
In reply to I'm regressing :-(, posted by messadivoce on April 12, 2005, at 0:28:18
Take Care Voce.
Maybe you can take little comfort in that I am little jealous of you - atleast your ex T replied in a warm way and from what I understood, he has been replying for over a year for you. I would have been happy to receive that kind of mail from my T :-). My T hasn't replied even once after termination, and maybe he will perhaps never write to me again - maybe not even once. He must have his reasons. Not sure if it is of any consolation to you, but I thought you might take some comfort knowing that there are worse things that could have happened.
Try not to hurt yourself too much over your T, because hurt turns into anger, and then it takes away the gratitude you feel for your T, and it leads to lot of unpleasantness, and leads to eroding the cherished feeling we have with our Ts. We all need to keep that cherished feeling so much. I just try to move on as much as possible.
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