Posted by pinkeye on April 7, 2005, at 13:00:47
In reply to Is this how it feels?, posted by messadivoce on April 7, 2005, at 3:24:07
Take Care Voce.
I think to get real emotional growth out of therapy, it needs to go slow - both catching on, and changing and finally letting go. Emotions don't change overnight like our logic.And what you are going through with your ex T seems to be right on track towards your healing - as long as he does not come back and say that you are emailing him too much. I hope for you, that he will allow this kind of trickling down of communication for you instead of chopping it off - that he would realize that it is needed for your emotions, and is willing to do that final bit for you.
And I love the spring fresh rains... soft and mild and gentle.. I think you are cleaning up too with it. Don't hurt yourself or force yourself too much in the process though.. I did it little bit to myself, but I wish I hadn't done it. But mine was a totally different story. I couldn't even pay my therapist, so from the begining I always felt like a burden and nuisance to him.
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