Posted by pinkeye on April 5, 2005, at 14:24:20
In reply to Mourning, posted by Shortelise on April 4, 2005, at 23:42:29
Take Care ShortE.
Keep yourself busy, and maybe if you can work on a slow termination like you are doing, maybe it will help. I am not really sure though.It hurts a lot, and you can console yourself in all different ways, but at the end, you just have to go through it.. maybe think someone very dear to you has died and that they are not going to come back ever - even if you throw all sorts of fits? I haven't been good through termination myself, so I don't have too much of an advice to offer you.
If you can have another fulfilling relationship maybe that will help.. But I think sometimes nothing can really subsitute a good therapist after leaving him. It is just a hole forever.
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