Posted by antigua on March 16, 2005, at 16:21:54
In reply to Ability to make peace with things, posted by pinkeye on March 16, 2005, at 12:40:03
I know that I try to make peace w/issues and I keep running up against the wall, banging my head over and over again. In my experience if you can work through what's bothering you (feel the feelings, be angry, whatever) and resolve the situation so that it comes out differently than the original triggering incident,those situations will no longer trouble you. Am I making any sense?
So maybe it's not accepting that you just have to make peace w/it, but figuring out why you can't and working to resolve it. This turns out to have a magical effect in your life because you end up applying these skills to so many other parts of your life.
For me, I will never feel at peace in my life until I work through my csa issues.
Did I say too much? I'm sorry you're struggling,
antigua
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