Posted by Susan47 on March 13, 2005, at 20:25:16
In reply to A question of protocol, posted by Dinah on March 13, 2005, at 11:47:18
Protocol schmotocol, imo you talk to your therapist or his or whoever's, about anything that matters. Anything. It's not disloyal to your husband, it never has to be if you don't badmouth him but state simply the way things are For You. I think a good therapist will be able to help you find ways to help your son directly but indirectly, if you know what I mean. She may never have to see him and he may not need a therapist either, but she should certainly be able to help you discover how you can talk to your son about his dad's behaviours, and help him find ways to minimize the effects. Now, before it's too late and he's leaving the nest and he's got an unresolved personality.
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