Posted by pinkeye on February 24, 2005, at 14:45:44
In reply to Re: Need Help, Please Support Me, Someone » pinkeye, posted by Susan47 on February 24, 2005, at 14:37:00
I think you are on your way to wellness.. You have a strange way of going about it.. you keep creating real life scenarios for things you want to work out in the long run. Maybe you should realize that and first stop this habit of creating microcosm scenarios (your own words from another thread).
By the way, it is not too late to start doing things the right way. You said you are 47 years old, you still got another good atleast 40 years of life left..Forget about what you could have done better in the past - you did as best as you knew with the resources at hand at that time. Now you have better resources, and you should do the best with what you got now.
But today is probably not the time to understand and correct the big picture. Forget about that for a while and get this thing worked out first. After you finish this task, you can revisit what you need to work on in the long run.
Also remember that it is not possible to correct the big picture, without focussing on the small small tasks at hand and getting them done right. Just like a pond gets filled with water drop by drop, you need to focus on all the small tasks that come up in your life and do them well - as an exercise and practice for you to do well with the real big things in life. That is how a child learns - a little by little doing small things, and that is how adults learn too.
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