Posted by gardenergirl on February 21, 2005, at 19:06:39
In reply to Re: **Trigger**, this thread, posted by jasmineneroli on February 21, 2005, at 18:49:20
B2C,
Yes, I agree, please keep posting here. The trigger warning is adequate. We can also warn away those who are most apt to be triggered. It's nice that you are thinking of others in this time that is so difficult for you.Please please please do whatever is necessary to let your pdoc know. If you are afraid you may change your mind on Friday, tell him now!
Please be proactive about this. I know what you went through in that facility was horrible. If you can work WITH your pdoc as part of the team, you can have some say in the kind of help you get.
And you need to get help. I have always heard how determined you were around this date you picked out. Please talk about what's going on. Why this particular date? Who else can you talk to? I know you don't want your husband to know, but please think about how he will feel after.
I work with a couple of clients who lost loved ones to suicide recently. I can't tell you how devastated they are. I have some sense, but I can't really understand their grief. And someone I know who is a survivor of many years will tell you that the pain never ever goes away. Suicide is a selfish act. I'm sorry if that hurts. But it is.
Please be take care of yourself. I know it's so hard now. It may seem impossible. But you will not regret it. I promise you that.
With much caring and concern,
gg
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