Posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 18, 2005, at 8:37:36
In reply to Re: very confused about my T session today-lost » Miss Honeychurch, posted by Frida on February 17, 2005, at 15:26:45
Frida,
I don't think you have anything to worry about. I don't think she assumes you are in love with her, but, it could be a possibility. Next session, try to get back on this topic and clarify your feelings.
I completely understand about you not wanting her to hold back or be more careful with you. I wonder if Ts have any idea how much little things mean to us? Like recommending a book and such.
As for the hug issue. Is your T the type to hug you? A lot of Ts have a no hug policy. So I wonder if this hug you are idealizing is even possible? I think my T would rather be set on fire than hug one of his clients, he is that much against it. I just don't want you to start yearning for something which may be out of the question. But perhaps I'm wrong and she is a hugger.
I fantasize about hugging my T all the time by the way.
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