Posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 1:02:03
In reply to New Therapist, She's Still Sick now what?, posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 0:23:44
How can anybody keep feelings for a love obsession "going"? So what did I think I was trying to do? Okay, stop a second this is ridiculous. Keep the feelings going. No. They don't need any help. They only happen when you think about him or see him, so the thing is you've been doing really a lot better just thinking about yourself, how you like yourself and how exciting you, Susan, really are. You're not the smartest in the bunch but you're not the dumbest either, you're a bit naive and I guess that's all right. One thing you definitely are is honest even when you know you've been dishonest.. you always recognize it, eventually. Even though sometimes you fool yourself. I think most people do, really, actually. And you can live with yourself, and you value your friends, and you're pretty much not afraid or intimidated by anybody anymore. Not really. I think actually you are able to see through people quite a bit. Sometimes that's really hard for you because you think you might be wrong, and being wrong makes it really hard to trust yourself again. But you know, you just have to keep pluggin' away at it, day after day, and hopefully each day gets a little bit better than the last.
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