Posted by B2chica on February 13, 2005, at 16:34:52
well,
i tested the waters with her, told her about my 'death date' and anxiety about it...-i think it''s more an obsession now vs. depression??
anyway i also jumped in the last few minutes and asked about the sex question (doing this mainly to see how she responded). i got the best information from you all (thnx btw). she gave me nothing, infact, and maybe this is just my poor interpretation and reinforcing my not talking to her about things but she got kinda surprised about the question and mentioned that there are sex therapists or physicians that would be able to help me with that if it's a problem...she really pushed off the question. it made me feel very sorry i brought it up and i felt bad cuz she looked uncomfortable...making me uncomfortable...
well, right away i switched into drive and gave the "oh, no i'm fine. i'm sure it's just cuz i was tense and it'd been a while...etc."
then she said i shouldn't have switched topics and needed to continue with concerns of the depression issue.
and yes, i do realize that it is important but...b2c.
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