Posted by Annierose on February 5, 2005, at 20:25:01
In reply to Re: sex » B2Chica, posted by alexandra_k on February 5, 2005, at 20:04:32
It shouldn't hurt B2Chica. It should be pleasurable. But if intimacy is an issue for you, it could be something to discuss w/T. Also, maybe your hubby needs to wait a little longer before (you know), so you get warmed up! I have different issues w/sex and it took a lot of courage (and time) to finally talk about them and it helped a great deal. I let my T know I needed to talk about something that was difficult. It took about 2 - 3 weeks of talking around the issue before I was finally able to get it out! And she could not of been more supportive, and made some excellent comparisons to other areas of my life. Now the issue isn't resolved 100% but I opened the door and feel better about discussing things with my husband. It's a long road, but worth it. BTW, there are some good lubicants on the market (at any drugstore).
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